La Diva serving up a lemongrass ginger martini for Yahoo's Latin American marketing department! Fun people, fun class!
Darlings! What is that saying about taking the girl out of the ghetto but you can't take the ghetto out of the girl? Don't know that one? Ah, well, no matter, my point is that I realized only this morning two things about my life right now:
1. My goal to live a "normal" life with "normal" hours outside of the usual grind of working weekends and nights like I used to in bars and restaurants is never going to change...La Diva Cucina Inc. IS a hospitality business.
2. I can now count 30 YEARS as a hospitality veteran...and if you include me scooping ice cream at Baskin Robbins at a tender thirteen years old and working at Burger Chef at 15, then add on another five, making it 35 years!
YIKES!
I am and always will be a hospitality worker.
I am and always will be a hospitality worker.
While you are out celebrating New Year's, Christmas, birthdays and dinner out, WE are all working for YOU. And for many people in hospitality, Mondays are days off for waiters, bartenders and chefs.
Since I left bartending a few years back, I have had a more traditional schedule and you can find La Diva on my computer almost every Monday morning at 7 am, checking emails, Facebook, blogs and what not, as I eat my breaky and have a cuppa, before I start my work day. But as I find I am working more nights and weekends, something has got to give. After working the last two weeks without a break, La Diva thought it was time to reinstill an old hospitality tradition: Mondays off.
And that day, my dear readers, was TODAY.
At The DJ's insistence, today was going to be a day of "no client emails, no returned phone calls, NO LA DIVA BUSINESS."
So, after a leisurely morning futzing about and starting trouble on Facebook, I decided that a bike ride around the beach was in order. Along the way, I'd grab lunch, eat it at the garden and pick up some glasses at CB2.
Fish tacos and a cold beer make for a pleasant lunch at the South Beach Victory Garden.
Soon, there will be oodles of lovely, tiny, sweet little tomatoes for our salads! These are barely the size of a thumbnail!
Thank you lady bugs for keeping aphids and other nasties away from my gorgeous escarole!
The garden is only a block away from the ocean and I scoot on over there to remind myself of why I live here. I never take the beach for granted and am grateful to live so close to the sea.
I continue riding up around the point at South Pointe with Government Cut to my left. This is where all the container ships, cruise ships and small boats and jet skies come and and out from Biscayne Bay to the ocean. Straight ahead is the Port of Miami with downtown Miami in the background.
As I head around the Pointe, frantic movement in my peripheral vision catches my eye.
Two puppies happily prance around South Pointe Park's doggy park.
I ask the puppies to "hold still" while I take their photo but they are not cooperating! The nice lady scoops up the little scamps and they resign themselves to being held for a photo!
Satisfied that La Diva got her "puppy fix" I get back on my bike and ride on to CB2 to pick up some stemless wine glasses.
Whenever I can, I try to take Meridian Avenue as it's the shadiest street! Lovely in the winter time but a MUST in the summer when the temperature climbs to 100 degrees and heat stroke is a real threat.
Meridian Avenue is home to many older, smaller Art Deco buildings on Miami beach and makes for a very pretty ride. I cycle at a casual pace, taking my time to look about and enjoy the scenery.
I quickly pick up the glasses, load them into my basket and make my way home.
In 15 minutes, I am home and head straight for my office and begin to check my emails. I start to respond to a pending client and then see one from husband: ARE YOU TAKING IT EASY TODAY? I save the email in the drafts folder, get off the computer and pour myself a glass of wine.
This is my favorite piece of new furniture for our house. My platform bed. This is why I HAD to get stemless wine glasses!
I cozy up on the bed, take a sip of wine and finally start flipping through my two new cookbooks, American Flavor by Andrew Carmellini and The Flavour Thesaurus by Niki Segnit, both Christmas pressies from my brothers in law.
As I look out at the water from my balcony bed, relaxed and happy, I realize that my husband is right. It's important for me to take days off where I don't do anything but everything I want to. Even when I'm not working, I'm always doing something...repairing, cooking, fixing, cleaning, calling....etc.... and have not taken the time to just read and let my mind be calm. After all, "business burnout" is never a good thing and La Diva has only just begun to see success!
Darlings, what about YOU? What is YOUR favorite way to spend your day off if you could spend it any way you want?
And now, a little food porn..... Here's my penne with Italian sausage, peas, mushrooms, tomatoes, chile flakes and a dash of cream.
Ta ta for now, darlings! xoxo
Great post, and your garden is looking terrific! So glad the DJ talked you into treating yourself to a real day off. You deserved it, and I'm sure you needed it.
ReplyDeleteOh did YOU deserve a day off. Wow. And.... puppies!!!!!!!! and what I have learned in the last three weeks? Other people's puppies are easier. I think my favorite photo is the one one with the bed and bottle of wine. AHHHHH. I know you're working super hard right now, pal, so keep up the great work. xoxox Thanks for posting.
ReplyDeleteOh fantastic.
ReplyDeleteThanks so much for sharing your day off. I felt my shoulders drop from around my ears just reading it!
Hugs and hugs to you successful lady!
monday is a universal day off for art too. almost all museums are closed on mondays which is odd considering how often people have long weekend travel plans.
ReplyDeleteI loved spending your day off in meeami. is that a community garden where you had lunch? you have a bed of your own? where do you grow your stuff?
TOday I am going up into the woods and finding decayed trees on the forest floor to work into my raised beds. I will go buy some sand too for the carrot bed - a peat. Maybe pick up a load of manure as well. lots of prep work today - the first in days with out rain.
ps my studio newsletter to you bounced.
Yahoo's Latin American marketing department? None of them look very Latin. Bwahahaha
ReplyDeleteYou really have to be disciplined to take a day off. I don't know how. My days off are more work than my days at work.
I like the platform bed. Is it out on a balcony? I see all of the Christmas lights. Thanks for the ride through town.
Sounds like a fabulous day...so jealous of your ocean.
ReplyDeleteHmmm, my day off was Sunday. Unfortunately, it's not warm here yet...so I spent the day in my nightgown, in bed, surrounded by my newspapers, magazines, iPad and dogs...reading, watching football playoffs, sadly no booze (I'm on another diet) and reading my new cookbook...The Food of Morocco by Paula Wolfert.
Mistress MJ is convinced that La Diva was born with a martini glass in her hand.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Eggy. I can't wait to get that little bit busier when I can afford to hire someone....
ReplyDeleteThanks, Boxer! Yes, puppies are like babies, best when they belong to other people! Because I dared to take Monday off, I now have a gazillion emails and phone calls to catch up on (yay!) and actually am responding to this only because I'm waiting for my appointment at the apple store!
*thoughts of Meyer lemon vodka....mmmmm*
Thank you, dear Roses. I wish I could allow myself to "really" relax more often.
Hey Chicky! Yes, it's the South Beach Community Garden, I got a plot there last May but this is my first season of growing, summer doesn't really count. I have a plot that I tend to alone, no partner (besides The DJ) and am growing a salad and herbs garden and include things I can't get easily or things I use a lot, like Italian parsley and mint. I didn't know that about artists....makes sense though with all the weekends we work! I love that you can go and get what you need from the woods near your studio. that's pretty cool. I got two of your newsletters by the way, very pretty and such a clever idea. I miss the old school valentines.
Hey Buzzy! Yeah, everyone in Latin America is not of Indian or Spanish descent, lots of European blood too! This group was Brazilian, Argentine, Mexican and American.
I know what you mean, our days off are about fixing stuff around the house, cleaning and catching up. I am hoping that one day it will slow down....and the maintenance list will be small again! So, I feel for you, Pal.
Yes, the platform bed is on our balcony and that view is the view I see from the bed. I had the bed made higher so that I could see the water above the railing. We actually had to have the contractor lower it by three inches, it was a bit too high next to the railing.....
Hey there, Mizz Jill! I'm sorry I've not been by in a while...too crazy! I love our ocean too....would you believe that some people I know actually admit they've not been by the beach in five years? Why live here? Anyway, miss you!
MJ! Or at least a margarita glass, fo sho!
You guys are so sweet to come by and comment, even though I've not been as active on your sites, thanks again. xoxoxo
Ya know, it does take discipline to take a day off!
ReplyDeletean' yores looked mahvelous, Sweet Pea.
I'se impressed wif' yore bidness-youse jammin'...but burn out happens, so keep takin' a day off.
Ain't it great to be in Florida? Ain't rubbin' it in folks, but now, it is somethin' special to be in short sleeves in yore garden in JANUARY!!!
About yore garden plot--is it honor system? how do you keep sticky fingers from pinchin' yore goodies?
Thanks, Aunty! One of the main reasons I started this business was to have flexibility with my schedule and time to do stuff I couldn't fit in before (like working out) IF I can't find balance, it's not worth it, so that's my struggle right now.
ReplyDeleteAs for the garden, pretty much everyone else has their own plots and no one minds if you pinch a bit of a herb or two, but this is my first successful planting, so who knows?! My neighbor's aren't doing as well....more piccies to come! Thanks for coming by, Aunty! x
D'oh! I finally understand stemless wineglasses! I kind of hate them in restaurants because they get all oogy with fingerprints, which makes me look like a little savage who can't keep her fingers clean. But for the home? YES!
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